How To Make Your Mistakes A Stepping Stone To Success.

Before I proceed,it is imperative that I define the word 'mistake'.A mistake is a behavior that results from an error in judgement, inadequate knowledge or lack of attention.A mistake is something that we all detest, avoid and regret.It can cause some loss, struggle or pain.It is something that every individual always seek to prevent in life.

Mistakes are inevitable.No matter how much we try to avoid or skip them,they are bound to happen.Mistakes are part of our daily lives depending on the on the type of decisions we are making.It is a give and take.We all make mistakes and need others to correct us.They are inevitable but as individuals we must try to avoid or minimize it.This is because if they become too often,it can be a major problem.It can cause a trauma and pain that can haunt an individual for the rest of his life.

Though we all avoid mistakes but they are very important in our lives.They teach us to learn and grow into a better versions of ourselves.This is so when we respond to them effectively.This is good news I guess?. Making mistakes make us human.It is something we can embrace and use to improve our understanding of ourselves and the world around us.We can turn this mistakes to advantage.We can turn it into a stepping stone to success.In every mistake,there is an advantage and a future.Utilize your mistakes for a better future.

Every mistake is not the end of the world as some people thought.When you fall you rise again.Every mistake leaves room for improvement and a lesson taught for those that can discern.You must pick up your pieces and forge on.No matter how painful and disappointing,it is vital part of learning and growing.Do not forget that.It becomes a problem when we fail to learn from it.Learn from your mistakes.We cannot attain the level of perfection.

It is important to know that failure sometimes lead to success because it allow us to test and try what works and what does not.It comes with a benefit.It can foster your critical and analytical thinking skills giving room to innovate,redirect and try other means to execute something.Many inventors that are widely known world over used failure and mistakes as an inspiration to create something better than they originally intended.Failing at something can redirect you to something greater.What do you think? Success comes at a price.

These are common mistakes made by individuals.These common mistakes tend to affect the moral and psychological behavior of people.These mistakes are:

-Feeling less accomplished in life.

-The feeling of not living more in the moment.

-Not following your passion in life.

-The feeling of not taking care of yourself enough.

-Feeling sad almost all the time.

-Not standing enough for yourself.

-Not standing for other people enough.

-Bothering too much about what other people think.

-Not willing to take risk in life.

-spending less time with your family.

-Working too much.

These common mistakes make people feel less accomplished and could have effects on them perhaps negatively.It is important for clear understanding for me to enumerate examples of mistakes people make in their lives.These are:

1. Allowing people to push us around.

2. Cheating on our partners which can be disheartening.

3. Dating a wrong person in our lives.So disappointing and frustrating.

4. Not listening to people around when needed most.

5. Being proud when you are supposed to be humble.Pride comes before the fall.

6. Overreacting when you are suppose to listen and be calm.

7. Overspending.

8. Being too rigid or hard to change.

9. Living to impress people around you.

10. Staying too long in your comfort zone.

11. Having the belief that money is everything in life.

12. Lying every time.

13. Procrastination.

14. Excessive drinking.

15. Impatience.

The lists are endless.It should be noted that these examples affect a lot of people and relationship.Most times people live with regrets and pain.This is not supposed to be.All these mistakes can be corrected if the individual can turn a good leave.As a result of this, mistakes can be turned to success.

No matter the mistake that has been made in the past,there is still room for a change.Your mistakes can be turned to your advantage.Do not give up.You must have made a mistake in your finances in time past and it seems you can never recover.Who told you that?You can make your way back to the top.You still got some gas left.Don't give up now ok.

Finally,you can make your mistakes a stepping stone to success through the following ways:

1. You must be ready to accept your mistakes.

2. You must correct the mistakes you have made.

3. Be open to constructive criticisms.

4. Be teachable.

5. Avoid pride.Pride comes before the fall.

6. Learn from your mistakes.

7. Avoid self pity.

8. Reflect on the progress you have made.

9. Stay focused, confident and committed.

10. Take a break and set up new goals for yourself.

11. Define what success means to you.

12. Stand corrected when you make a mistake.

13. Don't take it personal.

14. Take responsibility for your mistakes.

15. Teach other people what you learned.

16. Get feedbacks to know your loopholes.

17. Find what you can learn from your mistakes.

18. Keep trying.Never give up.

19. Keep it professional.

20. Stand on your feet.

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